So ABORTION is a trend?!

​” the deliberate termination of a human pregnancy, most often performed during the first 28 weeks.”

I’m no doctor, not really a science inclined person at alllllll…. But I know a bit of mathematics..and in 28weeks we have about 7months right.!?….

What am I even saying!, by the seventh month and you still thinking of abortion😱😱😱……you is a cold hearted murderπŸ™…πŸ™…, so let’s reduce it a whole bunch…once the egg is fertilized in your tummy, there should be no going back….I’m not sure how long it takes the seeds to find its way to the eggs and then fertilizeπŸ˜•πŸ˜• the research😌😚…….. It will help.

I sometimes sit back and wonder about the forth coming generation and I just wanna cry, things are getting worse and if Jesus tarries in His coming….boy oh boy!!!! God have mercy.. We have made some awful things feel alright, like a norm… We look the other way when we see things going terribly hay-wire because its not happening to us directly… Ahh! It must stop ohh..


ABORTION ain’t cool…its a no no!…

 I like using pictures a whole lot in my writings if you have noticed, they speak louder than words…

Now there is the process of flushing or cleansing immediately after sexual intercourse, that one dey!!!….but if you let your carelessness over your body results in a kid…a festus… It is not okay to abort…please and please.. Don’t act irresponsibly… You felt matured enough to have the sex, so please be matured enough to born the child.πŸ˜°πŸ™….

I apologize if i’m talking a bit harshly, but I am earnestly tired of reading stories where girls open their mouth and feel alright saying “I have aborted three times for him”.. Ah ah!!!πŸ˜¬πŸ˜¬πŸ˜ πŸ˜• and people act like its a normal something… Oga! Aunty! It is not right ohhhhhh! 

And if it was a terrible situation that got you in that state, truly sympathetic towards the situation…..but please be informed, cleanse your system on time is in no way abortion.. There is no live in you that you are terminating … Please and please ( that is if you cleanse immediately e.g a day to three days after occurrence).

A lot of ladies In life who have aborted due to one reason or the other….

most times regret it a whole lot latter in life,and that regret really doesn’t ever go away….. but please if you are reading this and you have a friend,a sister, a lover who is preggies and thinking of aborting… Give them other solutions but please not murder!


Enough said.. Yooooo! If I spoke outta line medically..I’m sorry and thank you for reading..I love you but God loves you so much more.😘😍



I love talking…and friends know me for a never boring gist.., ( you see i am doing that now..talking too much..not even a hi… Forgive meπŸ™πŸ™πŸ˜Ώ whats up guys😁😁😁 una dey!!!)but I wanted another avenue to express mi-self and so my darling Izzy-D suggested I start writing…even offered to design a website for me (how sweet)😁😁😁😁… Anyways!!!, right there in his presence I went online and researched on how to start a blog.., came across WordPress and signed up……..πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰

We happened to have been discussing about something relating to love and sex and voila that brought about my first topicπŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰… (Relationship without sex).

Wow!! The response I got,πŸ˜‚πŸ˜­πŸ˜­ I was so surprised. I definitely wasn’t expecting it cause I have come across lots of blogs with zerooooo response on them, it was a huge encouragement and as they say “the rest is history………..

Bla bla bla…so Joy what you driving at!!?.. Lol calm down.., your blood dey hot!!! the story is just getting startedπŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜•.

As time went on, the write ups kept coming but sometimes😱😟…walahi sometimes e hard die…no single juice for my brain( I mean inspiration). I began to ask myself “who send you work ?!” “Na by force!?”…… It was those times I wanted to give up soooo bad. You check other people’s blogs and you see huge followership, loads of comments and likes…you begin to wonder…what the hell am I doing wrong?????πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’

Well here’s the deal… Its not just me, a lot of folks started up something that they enjoy doing but then observe others in the game doing way better than them… And wonder  what they are doing wrong!?,why they ain’t doing  so well, even though they probably just started their own ventures recently. We dont even care to do some research on them..see how long they have been in the business!, or even tips to know if we on the right track!!!……πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‡

We want it now now now and big big big… But that’s not always the best. Easily gotten..easily lost.


Do a research… The people we admiring and look up to..especially the legit ones who have stayed in the game over seasons come and gone.. You’ll see how they started…😁 , it will inspire you and you can even laugh at yourself for thinking you doing horribly.(beginners thoughts).. Be you a musician, a blogger,a youtuber, a makeup artist,a photographer,pursuing a professional career.. Etc



I am literally encouraging myself even as I write this to you guys…..

Keep doing what you doing…. Don’t give up no matter how little you think it is and finally just know I’m your number one fan… Cheering you all the way😘😘😘πŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠπŸ‘Š

Nail Polish addicts😁

Hey my lovelies…. Its been a minute though…(I mean its been a while)πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜, what a gwan since I went of the radar… I truly hope you doing fine.            I personally have been going through a lot and in the following write ups I will be hinting you guys on those things( the good the bad and the ugly)….but for now… back to the matter on groundπŸ˜‰.

I have a secret and i truly never told no one before…… But i cant hide anything from you……can i!?? So im just gonna say it and be done with!!😒😰😰


I am A NAIL POLISH ADDICTπŸ’…πŸ’…πŸ’•πŸ’•…. I love lots and lots of different colors, the glittery ones,the shiny ones and of course the matte ones😍😍😍 but sometimes I can’t seem to find the exact colors I wantπŸ˜’πŸ˜–πŸ˜–. Does that happen to you too!??😱😱😱😱…(sorry loves I feel your pain). Well fear not 😁 sweetbits to the rescueπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ.hehehe!

No jokes though, do you remember anything from your fine art classes( used to be my favorite class).. Primary and secondary colors… Mixing some certain colors to get other colors and so on … You remember right?!!πŸ‘πŸ‘ awesome.

Take for instance…I love me some grey/ash nail polish… But on this side of the globe!, its so hard to come by…and I must have my Grey nailsπŸ˜ πŸ˜•πŸ˜ πŸ˜‘πŸ˜’.. All I got to do is get me a white polish and a black polish and mix them up in the right proportion depending on the shade of Grey I desire..

As you’ll see in the picture below, I wanted a lighter shade of I went with the ratio 4:1  (white:black)..

Cool right… Its fun and saves you a whole lot of change… So try it out..throw in your favorite colors and see what it createsπŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜‰..

One more tip for you awesome #nailpolishaddicts…😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 Have you ever had difficulty trying to open up your nail polish bottles after a while of not using it..probably because a bit of polish dried up at the neck and has it stuck?

Well try this and you’ll be fine… 1) after using your nail polish..take a cotton wool  soak it in a nail polish remover and use it to clean off the excesses that might have spilled out.

 2) take a little bit of vaseline or any oil actually and rub generously on the same spot( that is the neck of the bottle)… Close your bottles and voila…that’s allπŸ˜πŸ˜€πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŠπŸ˜Šβ˜Ί.

That is it FAM… Its not much but it has helped me a lot and I hope it helps you out do..

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