Discipline is the suppression of base desires, and is usually understood to be synonymous with self-control restraint and control”.        

                                                    -wiki wiki pedia!๐Ÿ˜

Indiscipline is basically the vise versa of the above, meaning lack of self control, restraint or the strength to suppress basic desires…….

Now why on earth have I chosen to write on this topic?๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜• hmmm maybe because it is the root of so much wrong going on e.g obesity,being broke etc or maybe because I am suffering from it and found a way out, and I thought it wise to share, or at least create an awareness!

I have suffered from indiscipline for a long long time, I always gave myself the excuse that Sagittarians were generally undisciplined ( which I saw online)….Things like” I just want to save some cash for a project… I really want to do it, but then I don’t, today I decide I am going to fast and wait on God, the morning comes and am chewing on some bread and thinking to myself ” some other day I guess”๐Ÿ˜Œ๐Ÿ˜’, or the part where I’m trying to cut down the fatty food intake, but I pass the pizza hut and just have to stop๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜”.”

Indiscipline comes in different ways and affects us in different areas of our lives. The sooner we deal with it the better for us. So here are some basic guides to living a more disciplined and productive life๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ™Œ Can I get an Amen!!! Somebody๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜

  1. Understand its not magic: come to terms with the fact that becoming disciplined is a process, it doesn’t work over night, because you say you are going to be disciplined from today onwards,doesn’t mean its gonna just work … You’ll be deceiving yourself. Its a gradual process, step by step. Rome wasn’t built in a day๐Ÿ˜‰.
  2. Stand up when you fall:  Trust me you will fall!, how much you fall though is totally dependent on you, but you will fall… And it is totally okay๐Ÿ‘Œ dont feel bad, but what’s not okay is staying down on the ground! No no!! that won’t do๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜•, fall a million times but please don’t stay down… 
  3. Be accountable to someone: yeap! You read right, take for example you trying to cut down some weight, you dont wana find someone struggling as you are, you would rather find a friend/ family member who is totally weight/ eating healthy conscious and is a fitfam, or some one who you totally respect and who cares about you. This is NECESSARY, as there are times when you just CAN’T. You’ll need that extra push or that thoughtful reminder!
  4. Write it down: its a phycological thing, writing down your goals just has a way of making it more real to you. Write it down in a notepad you carry often, so you can always see it. Like the bible says ” write the vision and make it plain”. 
  5. Believe in YOURSELF:  one thing I’ll forever love President Obama for…. The statement he made during his campaign “YES WE CAN” so tell yourself today ” YES I CAN”  nothing is ever as difficult as our minds make it. Just believe in yourself and start today to make those healthy plans.
  6. Trust your God to help you through it: God said with Him every impossible becomes possible, so why not try Him today, go to Him with that area of indiscipline you facing, request for His help…and when He finally is helping you( don’t stop Him) because it might get hard and painful, but it is worth it… Just like the clay experiencing that degree of heat, if it doesn’t break in the fire and makes it through, it will be decorated with beautiful art works and used to carry beautiful things. So be like the clay and let God be your Potter.

Stick to this simple but yet hard steps with consistency and you’ll see your prayer life increasing, your weight reducing, your bank account enlarging… Remember YES YOU CAN!

Thanks you for reading and I hope it works for you,as it did for me… I wrote it with lots and lots of love



Igbo kwenu!!!! Igbo kwenu!!! ๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿ™† ย Your girl is ever loyal ohh….and as you can see I am here to rep my peoplesss๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€ and our delicious methods of cooking soups…

Egusi is actually a Nigerian soup…I am truly not sure of its origin, as different tribes try to claim and make it their own๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•….. Anyways Egusi is actually melon seeds and is very healthy and tasty, so let’s get right into the pictorial.


  1. Grinded egusi(melon seeds)
  2. Already boiled meat,chicken,goat meat
  3. Already boiled stock fish, and cleaned smoked fish
  4. Ugwu leaves( melon leaves)
  5. Cray fish
  6. Pepper ( using cameroun pepper)
  7. Onions
  8. Maggi and salt
  9. Locust beans (opeye)
  10. Red oil.


  1. Add sufficient water to your boiled meat… It should be almost equivalent to the Size of soup you wish to make… Set it to cook until it boils
  2. Take your crayfish, clean it up then pour it into your washed mortar and pound, add your cameroun pepper ( very peperish be careful) and also your locust beans and pound it to a smooth paste.
  3. While waiting for the meat stock to boil, clear out the crayfish paste from your mortar… Pour in your already grinded egusi, add a pinch of salt and a pinch of pepper and pound.. After pounding.. Roll them into small balls unto a plate
  4. Proceed to chopping your onions and ugwu leaves
  5. At this point your stock should be boiling… Put in the egusi balls and cover the pot
  6. Once that is done add your onion And your crayfish pasteStir it generously, adding your maggi to taste…please if you not using knorr maggi๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ repent๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜..knorr Maggi is baeeee
  7. After putting in your maggi and salt to taste… We then put in our red oil and it should look like so
  8. Time to put in our stock fish/dried fish/smoked fish whichever works for you… Allow to seamer for a min or 2 and last but not the least put in your vegetables and stir properly

And its a wrap!!! your Egusi soup is ready to eat… Could go with Eba, yam poundo, pounded yam, semovita etc…

I hope this pictorial was helpful..if yes give this post a like and comment if you have a different way of cooking yours or you have a question, I am all ears..๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜

Have You Found Your Soul Mate? Are You Sure?๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•

Okay chill as a christian I truly am not a believer in the term “soulmates ” per say ย but I do believe there is that special person we come across in life, its a rare and beautiful encounter…I for one have had this experience, even though we are not together๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ ๐Ÿ˜€…. Let’s not get carried away….(gosh only the memories๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜”)

Well after a thorough research๐Ÿ“–๐Ÿ“ฑ interviews and my with the help of my great friend Google๐Ÿ˜….. We came up with 5 certain signs that you are together with your soul mate..and to me that “special somebody”.

So without further ado, let’s jump right into it๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‡ ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ๐Ÿ‘‡ ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ๐Ÿ‘‡

Number 1 : You are so comfortable with him/herย : ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย ย Truth be told there is no big deal in being comfortable with some people… They just have that effect on you, (like me right๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜) but what I am talking about here is being so comfortable that you find yourself opening up to this person ever so easily, unconsciously or consciously sharing secrets you’ve never told anyone else. When you feel at ease, letting go of your fears,revealing your scars,sharing yor dreams and just BEING YOU becomes easy/normal. You find it so easy to laugh.. and whenever you’re with the person it feels like where you feels likeeee ehmmm!…๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜ of course it feels like HOME

Number 2: You have MAD๐Ÿ˜ต๐Ÿ™Œ Chemistry:

Oh yes, mad chemistry….the tingling in your toes,the weakness in your knees,loosing of your breathe,butterflies๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž in your tummy,dizzy spells… This is the kind of chemistry that can be seen and felt by others, in short staying alone with each other is almost not advice able( if you not married i mean๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€ to avoid stories that touch the heart๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜ฎ)because when you together, the atmosphere around you is charged with so much desire and need. Let me stop here..ehn hmmm!๐Ÿ™Š๐Ÿ™Š

For some of us who doesnt understand this chemistry…let me define it simply: It is the representation of the emotional connection when you are together.

Number3: Silence is Golden: ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย Doc. Joy what does that even mean?

Heheh am the love doctor!๐Ÿ˜Ž…

okay okay..its quite simple actually…its when your non-verbal communication with that person is on POINT.,because you connect with this person on a whole different level..there are sometimes you don’t even need to say a word…just a look or a wink or even a certain kind of smile and you know all you need to.. Your body language is so in tune that you can just TELL…..

Number4: A Steady Undeniable /Involuntary Reaction: ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  For every action there is a reaction, sometimes they are voluntary and other times involuntary… ย Now being around this person does things to you that you cant seem to control…like the increase in your heart beat or you can’t help that smile that keeps popping up when you see that person๐Ÿ˜€, even if your mad at that person… Guys this is more than just a passing feeling. This connection is so LEGIT that every bones in your body responds in agreement…and am not even talking about chemistry.

Number 5: Imagining Yourself With Another ย Just Feels Weird and Impossible: ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  After I met this guy..(a little insight) I couldn’t see myself with another guy…truth be told we not together..and even at that its a struggle.. I still can’t see myself with another…I really admire those of you that have such a relationships/marriages….

Try it today…imagine yourself without that person…picture your future without him/her….does it hurt?… Mine did and still does….

So yes guys these are the five signs that ensures you are where you ought to be…and in conclusion here is a quote from a book my dad gifted me….

“The importance of compatibility can never be over emphasized, same goes for shared interests and believes. It is important for you to respect each other. When all these factors are in sync, you just know its right.

When you find this person…don’t let anything get in your way…do as much as you can, to try to be together… Life is too short to wonder “what if” . ย Life let your parts cross for a take the chance while you still have it”

Thank you for reading… Live,love,laugh!



A miracle?….I personally don’t have a scholastic definition for you๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜.,……. Boohoo right?!!๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’

Well my research tells me that miracles have been defined by many to be a supernatural intervention performed by supernatural beings, while some have said it is the defying of time tested scientific laws…..

These are all true and facts, but let’s bring it down to a lay Man’s definition…….Miracles can be defined as something unexpected,something really nice,something really needed, that happens to me or you, …to you viewing it,it might seem as a normal event,,but to the person experiencing it, it is a MIRACLE๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™ŒHalleluyah.

Let’s use this story as a case study.

A man and his wife had a 10months old daughter .It was the end of the month and salaries were paid yaaayyy๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œbut of course so also were bills to settle๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข( I hate this part of being a grown up)….anyways by the time they settled all their bills…they had nothing left at all…not even enough to buy a gallon of milk for their little baby………….

Scene Two..

Now a man( different from the married man) finished from church one faithful evening and he had a deep desire to hear from God…so he prayed and said  “Dear God speak to me and please use me, Amen!” I will try my best to listen and obey….And just like that he got into his car and drove home….

On his way home he had this urge to buy a gallon of milk ….he thought to himself “hmmm I already have a gallon of milk at home…ohhh God are you speaking to me?…,hmmmm Okayy I’ll just believe its you speaking” soooo he drove to the grocery store and bought the gallon of milk, got back to his car and drove on,listening to a gospel track……….

‘Take my heart and let it be,                          consecrated Lord to thee, ‘…… ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎSinging at the top of his voice, he abruptly stopped again when he felt the nudge to turn left. 

Hmmmm “Lord is this really you?!๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜• this is definitely not funny anymore…if I take this turn…I’ll be entering a residence Lord….its 10 p.m….” 

Instead of taking the turn, this fellow drove straight on (lol๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’)….but the further he went ,the further the peace he felt left him..till he didn’t know when he turned his car around and found himself at the entrance of the residence…..

The lights were off and it seemed the owners of the residence were already asleep…. Getting off his car he said a prayer….

“Lord God, this is scary, i feel like i should go up and give them this milk, but oh well whats the worst than can happen right๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜ฑ, I’ll go knock on the door and if no one answers I’ll just go back home…”

So he walked up the stairs and knocked on the doors. Knock..knock.  Knock…..hmm no response he thought to himself, I’ll try just one more time , just as his hand touched the door…he heard a loud voice speak not so friendly ” who are you and what do you want by this time of the night?”.

Opening the door, there stood a half angry,half sleepy man staring at This intruder with the gallon of milk in his hand. The man stretched out the gallon of milk me to the sleepy man and said “I had the leading to give this to you….please forgive my intrusion…

The sleepy man fell to his knees confused and taken aback!!๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฑstarted crying….speaking under his breath “oh God, oh God, you are so gooood๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ….ohh how can I thank you.                                   His wife came to the door on hearing her husband cry…seeing him on the floor with milk in his hands…she stared hard at the stranger standing by the door…a bit confused and asked with a shaky voice ” who are you? And why is my husband crying?” 

He replied” good evening, am Jackson ….was just telling your husband how I got a leading to bring a gallon of milk to your home, you see I prayed, asking God that if he still spoke to people…He should speak to me… I’m guessing He did.

Her husband stood up,rushing into the house with the milk, entered the kitchen and started preparing a bottle for their daughter……his wife invited the stranger into their house, led him to the kitchen and left to carry their baby ๐Ÿ‘ถwho had started wailing at the top of her tiny voice.(she was hungry)

In the kitchen……..

The man was explaining to the stranger, stilling sobbing.. But calmer now… You see my wife and I got paid but we had an unusual debt to pay this month…and had nothing left by the time we were done, not even enough to buy milk for our little baby… She has been crying for hours and we have been feeding her water….worried for her life and safety… wife and I got down on our knees and did the only thing we knew how to, we prayed….we asked God for a MIRACLE……and here you are…

The woman carrying their little bundle of joy, walked into the kitchen saying… ” I prayed to God to send an angel to us,”…. in all humility and seriousness she asked “are you an angel?” 

The stranger took out his wallet and removed all he had on him and placed it in the man’s hand….said goodbye ,turned and took his leave.

On getting to his car, he wept,and thanked God for answering his prayer and using him .. 

An angel of Miracle he was… 



Be an angel of miracle today, that act of kindness might seem little to you,inconsequential even!  but you might just be seen as their angel of miracle…..its not too act of kindness is ever too little… That homeless man on your street,take him to the saloon to get a hair cut… That little kid, buy him/her a picture story book…. Allow yourself to be used… me,there is no better feeling…

Thank you for reading fam…. Don’t forget to like, share ,comment ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡and most of all please practise a random act of kindness before this week runs out.๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

Its Fridayyyy!!!๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ (Story Time!)

It’s day 6 guys….this month is definitely breezing by…feels like yesterday, we was cooking Christmas breakfast๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข….but anyhowww

Whatz up mi amours. …wha a gwan!, wetin dey sup!๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ ย which ever one appeals to your senses,๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜ How did your week go…pretty cool right!! Lucky you…mine went in a blur๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข….had to even double check my calendar to be sure today’s Friday๐Ÿ˜ฐ๐Ÿ˜ฐ๐Ÿ˜ฐ.

Yes enough of the pity party…let’s get into the story… I have serious gist for you guyss๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰…
Men !. Fear them…hmmm, this is definitely a personal story…happened to me and I couldn’t believe my eyes…๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ lol…

So it all started on a beautiful morning…I was at work and it was such a lazy morning as I had done most of my work the day before…. And usually when I’m bored….my mouth needs to chew on something ( you too right!๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜) ….luckily it was almost lunch time…so I stepped out to go buy some snacks and yassss I was on fleek๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜Ž I mean hair was on point…hehehe ,after ย strolling round the full plaza…finally found some things to chew on..

On going back to the office…I come across two tall muscular guys…( quite appealing to the eyes, i must say๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜‰) and just as I was about to pass by…one of them said hi and stood in my way….(_how rude๐Ÿ˜‚)

(Now guys when I say this guys looked pretty young, like in their early thirties) .

Back to the story….so he introduces himself and request for my phone, which I reluctantly hand over to him…dials his number ย on my phone..and then gives me his complimentary card….. Said our byes and that was it…..

Boring right?!…๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ Fast forward to two days later….

I receive a call from a strange number. ย  ย  ( cos I forgot to store his number)… So am like

Me:hello…good evening

Him: Yes goodevening, how are you?

Me: am good but sorry who I am speaking with?

Line cuts……

Oh boy!, am like what the hell…. But I calm down and try to remember the voice…and I immediately went to my call log…scrolled down to 2days ago..checked the time and gbam! It was him…as I suspected.. So I call him back and he picks and I apologize and we got talking again…

Started chatting on WhatsApp…talked a lot on the phone… He was pretty engaging and it was cool…. Then he requested we go on a date and we fixed a date….

Yes yes date evening came and we agreed on a place to meet, ย when I got there….

Hmmmmm If you see the car this guy drove….hmmmm bad badoo baddest!๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜ I don’t really know names of cars but this car wasss baddddd…as in cleannnn. .. So he picked me up…and we got to our destination,we got talking and I got to understand that he was one of the top oil dealers in abuja.. The man was rolling in ๐Ÿ’ท๐Ÿ’ท๐Ÿ’ท๐Ÿ’ท๐Ÿ’ต๐Ÿ’ต๐Ÿ’ต๐Ÿ’ต… ( some would ask, how do you know…is it by car) see leave that thing…when you see’ll know๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰. ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย ….As the conversation continued( which included knowing ourselves more and him asking me to be his girl)….his friend popped into the relaxation center and introductions were made…he joined in on ย our convo… (Now this man happened to more matured.. Like in his early 40’s ) he started explaining how people meet for the first time and immediately fall in love…proceed to have sex and so on and so forth… Explaining why I should say yes to his friend…as he could see his friend was already head over heels…I maintained my stand that it was too early to say yes and I needed a Lil time to consider everything ( ย even though guys I will not lie to you…my longer throat instincts had kicked in and I was already imagining life of splendor…if you know what I mean) . hehehe…

Well the night drew near and I stood to take my leave ..( he had already called an uber for me…which was my first time entering one๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ ,was really cool) so he escorted me to the car… I turned around to give him a hug and I felt him slip something into my pocket. I didn’t bother checking until I was inside the car…and there it was ….moneyyyyyy,( I won’t disclose the amount but trust me,it left my throat dry and my eyes popping… then a text came in…manage that and thanks for coming…as a badt ๐Ÿ˜Žguy that he is….
Ahhhhhh! The longer throat kicked in…during the drive home…my imagination went into hyper drive….ahhh..a trip to Dubai…a new phone ( yes I knoww๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜ฆ๐Ÿ˜ณ…couldn’t help it)…so I got home safely and yessss I remember….my mums church was having a singles program and she invited me…that same evening….welllll! the church was just across the street from our home ….so why not…I went.

Yooo! You might think its a joke, but a movie was on, went I got there( the war room) if you have not seen that movie…please do…. So after the movie, came the prayers and we prayed…. And one of the prayer points was that God should help us make the right decisions in chosing a spouse( which I did ย seriously cos you know…I was already looking at the oil magnet as an option๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ who no like better thing).

Program closed and I went home…. In getting to my room…I just had the nudge to browse out the man…find out things about him…so I went online…took his complimentary card and typed out his details….his facebook account popped up and I sharpily clicked on it….




All I could hear was my heart beating……………. His profile picture was his traditional wedding photo……… Jesu!!!!
Yeapppp…this guy was married with 3 kids.….ahhhhhh !!!! If I tell you… ย  that nothing about this guy suggest that he is married…his ring finger doesn’t look like he ever wore a ring….he was so fit and flirty and …..I cant explain buttttt chaiiii…( I felt really bad) I personally have a principle of staying away from married men….I don’t want some young girl flirting with my hubby Later in the future cos I believe what you sow…you’ll definitely reap….

So I called him up…and he was like “babyyy have you gotten…..” I didn’t wait for him to finish before I said…. So you’re married….you didn’t think ย that was an essential information to disclose…. And guess what his reply was…..”wellllll ย You never asked…didn’t think you would mind”๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜ฃ๐Ÿ˜ต๐Ÿ˜ต๐Ÿ˜ต. Ahhhh! ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ one chance..

I can’t shout…to prevent stories that touch… I cut the call and blocked and then deleted the number……..e pain me ohhh!….but God was faithful enough to save me from any further hurt.

Moral of story: not all that glitter is gold…. Involve God in every decision you wana make and don’t be moved by your longer throat๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

So yes…that’s it guys… Hope you enjoyed this story, and I hope you learned something…. Dont forget to like and leave a comment ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡

Thank you and have an awesome weekend๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜… God loves you.


  Good day to you my lovelies….How time flies, it’s already the 3rd day in 2017…

So am sure you know I gat mad love for you right.  And if you didn’t…wellll ama scream it….


And because of the love I have for you…I just had to post this….saw it somewhere, and I just had to share it…

Let’s read..prolly take a biro and your journal…and write down key points you feel you need to run with in this new year. 

Here are the alphabet principles for a successful life…and I don’t just mean financially…

      *ACCEPT*:  Accept others for  who they are and   for the choices they have made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives  or actions.

    *BREAK AWAY*:   Break away from everything that  stands in the way  of what you hope  to accomplish in your life.

     *CREATE* :  Create a family   of friends whom  you can share your hopes, dreams,  sorrows, and happiness together.

    *DECIDE*:   Decide that youโ€™ll be  successful & happy come what may, and good things will find  you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.

      *EXPLORE*: Explore & experiment.    The world has much  to offer, and you have much to give and every time you  try something new,  youโ€™ll learn more  about yourself.


      *FORGIVE*:  Grudges only weigh  you down and inspire unhappiness & grief. Soar above it, and  remember that   everyone makes  mistakes.


      *GROW*: Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.


       *HOPE*: Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.


      *IGNORE* : Ignore the negative   voice inside your head.  Focus instead on your  goals and remember  your accomplishments. Your past success is only  a small inkling of what  the future holds.


      *JOURNEY*:  Journey to new worlds,   new possibilities, is mostly by remaining open-minded.  Try to learn something new every day and you will grow in Knowledge.


      *KNOW* : Know that no matter   how bad things seem to be, they will always get better. The harshest Winter always gives way to the Warmth of Spring.


      *LOVE* :  Let love fill your  heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there is NO room for anything else,  but when love is in your heart, thereโ€™s room for endless happiness and possibilities.

      *MANAGE* : Manage your time and your expenses wisely, and youโ€™ll suffer less stress and worry.  Then youโ€™ll be able to focus on the important  things in life.


      *NOTICE*:  Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering people.Offer your assistance  when possible, and always your kindness and understanding.


      *OPEN*: Open your eyes and  take in all the beauty  around you. Even during the worst of times, thereโ€™s still much  to be thankful for.


       *PLAY*:   Never forget to have  fun along the Way.  Success means nothing without happiness.


      *QUESTION*: Ask many questions, because you are here to learn & be informed.

      *RELAX*:  Refuse to let worry and stress rule your  Life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end. 


      *SHARE*:  Share your talent, skills, knowledge, love, funds and time with others. Everything that you  invest in others will return to you many times Multiplied.

       *TRY*:   Even when your  dreams seem  impossible to reach, try anyway. Youโ€™ll be  amazed by what you can Accomplish with consistency and diligence.

      *USE*:  Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that is wasted or undiscovered has no value. Talent  that is made into efforts will bring unexpected rewards.


      *VALUE*:  Value the friends and family members who have supported and encouraged you & be there for them as well. Spend quality time with friends and family.


      *WORK*:  Work hard every day  to be the best person  you aspire to be, but never feel guilty if you   fall short of your goals.  Every sunrise offers   a second chance. Take it and use it .


      *X-RAY*:   Look deep inside the  hearts of those around you and you will see  the goodness and beauty within. Try to look beyond the things you can see.

      *YIELD*:  Yield to commitment.If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you will find success at the end of the road.


      *ZOOM*:   Zoom to a happy  place when bad  memories or sorrow rears its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your joy and your goals.  Instead, focus on your abilities, in  your dreams, and   a brighter tomorrow. 
The year just began, leave every challenges of 2016 behind and focus on the greater you. Be a blessing to others always.

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