NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS?!

Few hours to 2017๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ but seriously it doesn’t feel like it๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜• ….ohhh well!, we happy all the same๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ right FAM!

I honestly just want to say a big thank ๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œyou, I am truly grateful for your support..whether you just observed…or commented or liked or even followed me…. I’m truly grateful FAM!… God bless you real good.

Let’s do it and much better come tomorrow the first of awesome days in 2017๐ŸŽ‡๐ŸŽ‡๐ŸŽ‡๐ŸŽ‡๐ŸŽ‡๐ŸŽ‡๐ŸŽ‡๐ŸŽ†๐ŸŽ†๐ŸŽ†….

Do you have any new year resolutions?๐Ÿ“ƒ๐Ÿ“ƒ๐Ÿ“ƒ

I for one personally don’t do resolutions….my level of keeping to it is 0.00%…. Yes I know its badddd๐Ÿ˜ง๐Ÿ˜ง but hehe look on the brighter side…I do have accomplishments I didn’t even plan for, come to fulfilment….๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช we badt like that.

So do you have any resolutions for 2017? Even if you are like me, and are so undisciplined in this area….at least have this two resolutions okay

1)Love God more…love yourself and try to love others the best way you can with Gods help

2)think outside of the box…tap into your inner self….self discover your potentials and put it to work my awesome lovers and make that cheddah๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿ’ฐ ,be happy and stay healthy.

Merci beaucoup ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡น๐Ÿ‡ฉ๐Ÿ‡ช๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ๐Ÿ‡ฆ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ฆ๐Ÿ‡ด๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ฆ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ญ๐Ÿ‡ฏ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ช๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ฆ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ด๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ฝ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡พ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ฟ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ป๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡น๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ญ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ธ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ญ๐Ÿ‡ฏ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ

Love you all!

Happy new year in advance…. I wish you the very best God has to offer.๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‹๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜š

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Happy Holidays

Truly…that’s my wish!…and that’s why I cooked up this short read!๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

This ๐ŸŽ… Christmas  seems to me like it should be tagged “simple Christmas“….. Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA is definitely in the spirit…๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ as this was the theme of their Carol night.

See fam, let’s be serious๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜……Everything is definitely pointing to a  simple Christmas celebration…. Here are some facts and advice you should consider this holidays.

1. Less spending:                                    yessss less spending…come to think of it, maybe, just maybe! God is tired of the extravagant spending all in the name of christmas…so He is allowing the poor financial state of the economy.. Plus mmm shutting down before you could withdraw…( hahahahahha sorry guys)…see less has always been more… Sooo buy less, cook less, eat less….๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

2. Give more:                                            Some will say now ” Joy which kind rubbish talk๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ฉ” …….if we spend less, how do we give More?

“Give, it shall be given unto you, good measures…pressed down and shaken together shall men give unto your bossom”…..

                                                         –Bible.

Whether you are a believer or not…this is a time tested principle of life…. You’ve heard of quotes like “givers never lack”, “its better to give than to receive”…     Do your research….majority of your wealthy personalities enagage in this life principle…. And besides this is the season where God gave His very best just for me and you…

So why get stingy! Huh?

Sow seeds this December and breeze through 2017! Seriously FAM! Try itttt…. .if you are currently doing this and it works for you…pls comment down below๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜‰



Do you know some families spend soo much for just 24th and 25th….not thinking of January and the responsibilities that come with it!?๐Ÿ˜พ๐Ÿ™€…..๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ the rent, the school fees,the feeding,the electricity bills,and so on!

In short….am done talking๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™….so in summary… Spend less .  . . . give more… ( give your time, give your prayers, give a hug, give a โ˜บ, give a book, give a plate of hot meal….. Giveeeee!๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™)..

You won’t regret it

Merry Simple Christmas!!!!๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽŠ๐ŸŽŠ๐ŸŽŠ๐ŸŽŠ๐ŸŽ‡๐ŸŽ‡๐ŸŽ‡๐ŸŽ‡๐ŸŽ‡๐ŸŽ‡๐ŸŽ‡๐ŸŽ‡


Love to the world!

Thank you for reading and please don’t forget to like and subscribe๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

My Own, My Home

Never ever thought of writing poems before,and truth be told I have no idea how it works, the structure, rules and regulations.

Lying on my bed, listening to my song playlist and thinking about my past choices, relationships etc
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A short poem comes around and as a blogger addict, I couldn’t help but write it down. Let me know your thoughts, advice, criticisms, everything. LOL
Enjoy……………….

I love him

He might be bad for me
But I can’t help it
He makes my heart beat so hard
Our chemistry is mad
But I’m so sad
He is not single
Though we might mingle
We will never be together
Why suffer?
So I let him go to his lover
To the place he belongs
As I long for my own beloved
My own
My bone
My home.
ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  The End..
I’am certain alot of people have gone through this, it is a terrible feeling.
It has a way of messing with your mind, reducing your self esteem.
Problems in relationships
Step out of that triangle, it’s not for you, you deserve much better.
Like the saying goes “don’t stay where you are tolerated, find a place where you are appreciated.
Let go,rebuild your self esteem… Fix your mindset and be placed rightfully, so that when love does find you…you won’t scare it off
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WHO DOES WHAT?

“I don’t mind taking up the role of cooking, I ย love to cook and it’s my way of relaxing after a hard day’s job”.

The above was a rare answer given to me during my Q&A with some random guys about marriage, expectations, marital roles etc.

Let’s not get carried away, wha ah gwan fam! How are you doing,how was the week? And how’s the weekend coming? Going alright I hope? Thank God!.

Yes so today let’s trash this issue… I have few questions inna me mind,me ah bring them out, so we can trash em!

No1. The marital roles today I.e wife cooks,cleans, do them laundry, men hussle,provide for the family etc….. Who made them? God?, people, society?

No2. ย Can’t they be switched up to fit the couples’ taste, must you do it, cos that’s how it’s been done ? That’s how you saw your mum and dad do it, or the fear of what outsiders might think?

Finally No 3. Marital roles today,is one of the reasons marriages are crumbling, why? And what can we as young singles and future married men and women do to reduce the rate of divorce and crisis in marriages. It does start from us.

“Confusion over roles is one of the most stressful aspects of modern day marriages”

-Gary Chapman.

As individuals, we must understand we come from different family backgrounds, methods and means of ย tackling issues.

images For example I have three senior brothers and kind of grew up doing some boy tagged chores like washing cars… Now I could decide to do that for my husband…no big deal…but the girl next door grew up with the training that only guys wash cars, and when her husband suggests this, she is hurt and disappointed.

In early generations where husbands ย were the providers and the wife the home makers, there was little confusion about who would do what.. ย  However in this 21st century, that’s not the case… In short in some homes, the reverse can be seen….

See if you as an intending couple, do not discuss and agree with your partner on who does what, you will find this to be a major source of conflicts in the first few months of marriage.

I’ll cite another example using my family of course…. Back in the days when I used to request for money to make my hair, I would run to my dad and guess what he would say? ย ” Leave me alone….go and meet your mother, that is not my department ” and as the little girl that I am, I would run to mum and haha! She would say….” I don’t have money ohhh….go meet your dad!

Now this might be funny,but for a little child growing up….it’s kinda confusing… You begin to have funny thoughts and weird mindsets…. And this subconsciously follows you into adulthood.510580552.jpg

What am trying to point out here are gonna be summarized into 3 points

1) Don’t copy marriages… Find out what works for you and your spouse3539d755043b77947013b92a9caaede2

2) you can only find this out…by much discussion, Interactions stop spending time discussing about how large your love is…or how hard your heart beats….discuss your values, ask questions about your growing up, discuss your expectations,examine your personalities, what he or she like,loves,can’t stand…and place your roles accordingly.couple-discussing

3) last but definitely not the least. Some roles are guided by nature if I might say….you don’t expect a woman to protect her family better than her husband?…she is naturally built to be the protected and not the protector. So know the roles which ought not to be changed…and for the rest switch it up as you like, to fit your marriage.

So guys tell me what you think, married couples please tell us what works for you. I am by no means a marriage counselor… But I’m only speaking for knowledge gathered through books and other peoples marriages. So please if you think am wrong…say it.tell me why….

I look forward to hearing from you soon.

Thanks for reading… Please don’t forget to like and comment. God bless!

I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP

Stolen!, loved it so am sharing it

RED LIGHTS

I have been in a relationship
One with parasitic benefits
I thought it was the best there ever was
It wasnโ€™t just what I thought it was
Maybe an illusion perceived
A feeling desired Just to satisfy self and repatriate others
My soul has been eaten up
Like the eroded spherical ball surface
And am left with the little the winds left behind
Pieces of a broken heart
Searched for a hand to mend
I found the love of my life that truly cared
I said yes
He stepped forward and embraced
My filthiness tried to steal this moment
He took me by the hand, walking me to the alter
As we approached all I felt was a transformation
The garment of filth, ugliness and damnation turned to cleanliness, beauty and redemption
He made me his bride and put a crown on my head
Took me into his city ofโ€ฆ

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