YES YES YES, i do love fridays, although i really have no idea why! hehehehe, anyways whats up people? how is your day going anddddd how was your week? cool right!, ok good, thank God.

I want to start a trend guys

especially for those who love to give to others, lending a helping hand and all that. I for one am praying to be a radical giver for like they say “IT IS MORE BLESSED TO GIVE THAN TO RECEIVE”…..

YES!!!!!!! i have your attention now right.

So here is how it works, do something free for someone today, i really don’t know what it is, but something that would normally cost you money or some form of charges!, do it for free, Sow a smile into a person”s heart, let that person go to bed… thanking God for bringing you into their lives…..

It feels great to give….. my siblings know me for that… yes as a LASTBORN ย that i am…. i tend to get stingy once in a while.. especially with my junk food(pizza,icecream,sharwama etc)hheheheeh…but we not talking about me right….

So starting from today, pick a random person,and give a random gift,a juice,recharge card!,a lunch, movie ticket,detergents, help an elderly person carry their bags(with a smile on your face please!)

Let’s do it guys,…. brighten the corner where you stand!…and like my favorite president would say “YES WE CAN”

Love you guys! please don’t forget to like, comment, share.. lets make this trend happen especially in this times!!
Joy from within is dependent on no one but God!



Once upon a timeeee!!! heheheheheeee

Okayyy, leme join the crowd and say TGIF, YESSSS! Thank God its fridayyyyyyy, hahaha, i dont ever enjoy saying those words cos my weekend are actually way more busier than the week days… i know right crazy.

So whats up guys, hows your Friday going? Mine is going terribly considering the fact we have not yet been paid for September..buh its all good, God is alive so am good. Yes so lets dive into the story, and noooo, its not a story about myself (ameboooo).

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Matthew gets on the phone and tries calling his dad, he hadnt spoken with him for a while a missed him terribly. Phones rings a couple of time and Matthews father picks the call excited… “oh my son, oh my son, i have longed to hear your voice sooo much, Matthew my beloved son (Father sobbing) how are you? how have you been my precious?” Matthew in tears replies ” Oh daddy i have missed you so much,i m fine daddy, schools going very fine, but daddy are you okay, you sound worried?

(Matthews father is silent for a bit, sighs and then replies) ” my son i am fine but our village is not fine at all, a terrible contagious outbreak has occurred, and is claiming the lives of so many, luckily for me, i have not contacted it. (Matthew feeling really worried now, interrupts his dad and asks) “daaaddd what disease?,when?,how?, whats the cure?  His father answers …” Matthew this all occurred when a couple “Adamu and Evelyn” ate a poisonous food before coming into the village and i don’t know how, but it just spread like wild fire and we were able to get some Specialists to investigate and find the antidote……….. Matthew interrupts his dad again and asks ” tell me dad, is there a cureee?????

“Yes my beloved son, sadly there is, Matthew says ” sadly? dad why sadly? , his father replies him ” son, the antidote needs the blood of a person who has not contacted the disease, and to create the antidote they need a person who is O+ and within the age of 22… son after so much researchhhh….. (Matthews father cant continue, his sobs become louder) Dadddd whats wrongg….. talk to me dad… His father gathers himself and continues… son after much research, you are the one in this whole village that matches all the category……..

(Silence on   both ends of the call)

Dad, what do you mean? are you saying my blood is the cure to the entire village? (Matthew sobbing real hard now) dadddd am so scared, but i will do it, i wana do it… i know what the village and its people are to you… i’l take the first flight tomorrow and il go to the hospital…the quicker the better, so i don’t chicken out.  Matthews Father still sobbing and mumbling his sons name over and over again…………

NEXT DAY.……..(Matthew arrives in the village and goes straight to meet his dad in the hospital… who has been waiting for him)

Father and son’s eye meet and with tears spilling freely they embrace in a gut wrenching hug…. Forgive me son…forgive me…Matthew’s father keeps repeating… Matthew kissing his father all over his face, feeling nothing but love for his father, bids his dad his final goodbyes, knowing the chances of survival were zero to none.

(Matthew enters the Blood Bank Room without looking back…. Matthew’s father laying on the floor crying for his only begotten son……)


(Doctors come out with a sad smile, walks to Matthews father and other villagers) ” sir it was a success, but unfortunately sir (doctor feeling extremely sad) we lost Matthew……..

(Villagers are celebrating, finally a cure to their terminal disease………… meanwhile it is a mixed feeling for Matthews Father)

Matthew’s father call for a meeting telling the people of how his son is no more, and how they should please make themselves available the following Sunday morning, for his beloved sons memorial and farewell service. The people feeling really sorry and appreciative of Matthews sacrifice….all promised to be there unfailingly.

(Forward to Sunday morning… in the chapel,  the chapel is virtually empty…..Matthews Father walks into the chapel…he cannot believe his eyes), sermon begins…

Some sleeping, some chatting amongst themselves, others playing with their phones) Matthew’s Dad looks around the chapel, his blood boiling, stands up from his chair… moves to the front of the church and calmly asks “why are you are here?, why have you come here if you cannot even honor my son’s death for a couple of hours…..he gave his life for yours….He didn’t argue with me when i told him what he had to dooo…. (father sobbing now ) he was eager to give himself for you all, and here you are sleeping, chatting, playing with your gadgets….How can you….wwhyyyy..( Turns and leaves quietly , turns back at the door and says….”IT IS YOUR CHOICE….CHOOSE WISELY…. LET MY SONS DEATH NOT BE IN VAIN PLEASE, LIVE A GOOD AND MEANINGFUL LIFE…” with that he leaves the premises).


I apologize guys, am not a good story teller , bear with me, but i hope you enjoyed the story….. am sure some of you can see the resemblance of the story to the story of Jesus……… and yes most of us are guilty of the things done by the villagers…. INGRATITUDE…… we are taking lightly the finished works of Jesus Christ in our daily lives, i don’t know how you doing it, or if you are, but none the less …take out time today to say THANK YOU JESUS FOR YOUR FINISHED WORKS…I LOVE YOU.

Thank you guys, am sure this is my longest write up so farrrr, i hope you were blessed… much love from me and don’t forget to like, comment and follow….




Funny topic right?

Whats up guysssss….. Wha a gwan!? ย How’s your week coming? ย ?mine has been! ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜–๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜•..if you get what i mean! ๐Ÿ˜‰

Yea, ย so just like the topic says, ย the one lesson your ย ex taught you… Good or bad, ย i wana know! ย Yea yea I’ll ย tell ย you mine too ……๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’

Yoooo! ย Its not even funny but my last relationship taught me to observe a guys stingy nature….. There truly is a difference between stingy and being a stingy koko! Ahhhhhhhhhh!๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜ฑ. ย  ย  ย  ย  ย ok leme give you this gist:

So during my nysc days …in the camp, ย i was sooo broke, ย i cant even explain guys , the brokeness ehnnn, i had just 5nairaaaaa๐Ÿ˜ซ๐Ÿ˜ซ. ย I call up my supposed boyfriend and we gisted and gisted and credit finishes…. He calls back and when he is about to drop, ย  am like “baby please ย send me recharge card okkk pleasee!”.… Guess his response!? ๐Ÿ˜‚ ย he says “yea sure no problem ย love“๐Ÿ˜Ž

Forward to three days later! ย Hunger has a different ย meaning in this camp๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฒ… As atms are not available…. Boyfriend ย has not flashed… Not even by mistake! ๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜”. As the good girlfriend that i am! ๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜‡ i borrow credit from the network provider and call bae…. Imagine he acts all cheerful ย and happy… Like he missed me forever! ๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’( oldman park well) …….trust me naaaa! ย I go direct and ask “is it because i ask you for credit card that you refused to talk to me for three days

Can you ย try to guess his reponse? ย Hahahahahahah at all your wrong… This is what he said ” oh my love ย i have been sooo busy, ย been trying to gather funds to send the recharge card ” hmmmmmmmm! ๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜• ah swear.. I confuse dieeee… Like bro seriously!? ย How much credit are you sending…. And this guy just bought a BBpassport the week ohhhhh!…

At that junction i ended the call, i can’t shout!๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜… And the rest is history…

See babes i come from a family where ย i have learnt that it is an EROOORRRRRRRR to marry ย someone who finds it hard to give….. I repeat ERROR

Be it you or your significant other, ย be sensitive to the needs of your partner… Dont even wait for them to ask… If its in your capacity… Do it and if you can’t…. Oga no dey form… Say you no go fit! ๐Ÿ˜’

Oya i have gisted you my own… Its your turn… Comment below on what lesson(s) your ex taught you.

Thank you so much ย for taking out time to read and please do like and comment.

God bless you and cause you to prosper above your wildest dreammmmssss…

WHA A GWAN!!๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿ™‹

No๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ yessssss it feels so good to be back! ย I missed writing so much even though it was for a few days.

Whats up guys how have you been? Hows the family, ย hows boo and bae!? I trust God that they are fine and that this recession is not residing in your residence!๐Ÿ˜

I have a whole lot of write ups for us guys… ย Educational, ย amebo, spiritual,everything rantable!!๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‹.. Everything ohhhh! ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰, il be flooding yourย pagesย with awesome reads guys… Much love, i celebrate you guys… And do have a pleasant night rest ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

LOVE LANGUAGES(LL๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜)??????๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜ฑ

I struggled with ย every relationship i ever was in…. Of course i didn’t ย know this was what it was… It was more like ” i don’t think he loves me enough”๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜ฅ or something why doesn’t he wants to call or hang out!… This affected a lot of my relationships because i would literally want the guy to love me ย exactly the way i loved him! ๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž bigggggg disappointment… It never ย everrrrr worked, ๐Ÿ˜ซ๐Ÿ˜ฉ and then at some point, i would just give up.

Now i am 70% certain that a lot of ย us have felt this way at least one time! ย Or like me most times! ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€.. But then i read a book ” The five love languages” by Gary Chapman(funny he bears the same name with my favorite drink!! Hehe) ย ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰.

Okay so in this book my understanding ย was opened to the fact that love speaks languages! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ hehe am guessing you didn’t know too… Buh yah! ย It does, ย and ย it is divided into 5ย categories which are:

ย ย RECEIVING GIFTS! ๐ŸŽ๐ŸŽ:ย I quote from the book.. “For some people, what makes them feel loved is to receive a gift.. The gift communicates the message “he thought of me” or she really does love me”. Now the task is to observe your partner, what does he or she like, or what do they lack that they really need… Nigerians aren’t ย fond of buying short guys are dodging February14th๐Ÿ‘Ž๐Ÿ‘Ž๐Ÿ‘Ž. Especially the girls๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜. Seee choose to be different, ย ladies spoil your man!


Couple Playing Backgammon on Floor --- Image by ยฉ Ralf Schultheiss/zefa/Corbis

Couple Playing Backgammon on Floor — Image by ยฉ Ralf Schultheiss/zefa/Corbis

QUALITY TIME๐Ÿ‘Œ โŒšโŒš: Quality time for me is the best… And as the name implies, it is basically ย giving or spending quality ย time with your significant other, giving your undivided attention and doing the things you both love or simply just gisting๐Ÿ’‘๐Ÿ’‘๐Ÿ’‘I am definitely under this love language group, ย because as much as i loveeee gifts…๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰ its nothing to me, if you don’t have my time. (If you like don’t buy gift you hear! ๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜“)


his-and-hers-2WORDS OF AFFIRMATION : Yes guys and it’s basically ย “Expressing affection through spoken affection, praise, or appreciation”. Your words may focus on the other person’s personality or the way they look or something they have done for you. ย If your persons primary ย love language is words of affirmation, ย your words would mean everything, nothing will speak more deeply of your love than words of affirmation .

ย I am semi in this categories… Who doesn’t like sweet lovey dovey words huh? ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜



PHYSICAL TOUCH! ๐Ÿ‘ซ๐Ÿ’: Now see every culture has what is termed the appropriate and inappropriate touch.. The appropriate touch is loving while the latter is demeaning and destructive. ย If your personal ย person’s primary love language is physical touch, nothing would speak more deeply than appropriate touch. ย And we do know touches have meaning(consciously and unconsciously) ย Assignment number 1: find out the different touches and what they generally mean?

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ACTS OF SERVICES:๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿ’†: if you speak words of affirmation to people with this love language this is a sample of the conversation. When you’ll say baby i love you.. Their response would be something like this ย “if you love me, ย why don’t you do something to help ย around the house? “. See the key to loving this kind of person will be to find out what things they would like for you to do.. and do them consistently.ย 

Here are some tips on finding out your love language :

1) observe your ย own behavior. ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  2) observe what you complain about. ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย 3) observe what you request ย for the most.ย 

I know some of you would say… Yo! ย Joy i belong to all the categories…๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜•, Yeap thats very possible but the thing is.. There is always a PRIMARY AND A SECONDARY LOVE LANGUAGE (PRIMARY=YEAP THATS DEFINITELY ME, ย SECONDARY=YEA YEA ย A LIL BIT)ย 

So guys find out your and your partner’s love language and learn to love them the way the want to be loved and not the way you want to be loved… Research shows that its very rare for couples to have the same primary love languages..ย 

I do hope this summary has helped you guys… For a deeper understanding.. Please get the book and read it.ย 

Thank you awesome readers.. I ๐Ÿ’ U.ย 

I wish you a HAPPY NEW MONTH and in this month nothing will steal your Joy. ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜


You see, saying someone is ugly is downright rude and mean, ย and shows what little knowledge you have of your Creator..

NO ONE IS UGLY, NO ONE WAS BORN UGLY…. they may be malnourished, distressed, broke ..but never ugly. ๐Ÿ‘Ž๐Ÿ‘Ž

As a makeup and hair artist, i have seen alot of magic, the power of transformation, a few touches and the person you once thought was not so goodlooking!๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜•, turns into a wow!!!๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ and your like “i didn’t know you were this cute oh! “๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•

Besides, the real beauty, the lasting beauty! is always on the work on both the inner and external.. but incase you dont believe me, that no one is ugly, ย here are some proofs to make you believe “oh ye doubting thomases”๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜œ

Clean yourself up.. You aint ugly

Hussle hard and ย when you have enough cheddah!, clean up good and turn from Boniface Cletus๐Ÿ˜›to Clyde๐Ÿ˜.

After you have hussle and you have hit Jack pot, ย dont be STINGY to yourself. Arrange and package yourself well,spoil yourself your bar (cash) ohhh. ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

So guys… Is anyone telling you your ugly.. Don’t mind ย them at all ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜Œ๐Ÿ˜Œ… Just stay on your grind… Soon enough They’l come admiring later. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜




Joy from within is not dependent on any external circumstances. Be joyful.

Thanks for reading guys.. ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜