DECENCY IS SEXY!! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

I know..you’l say Joy mind your business… Toh!  I can’t  help it, Yes yes… I must talk ohh! ๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜ช

Being sexy doesnt mean you have to be nude nahh๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜”….But seriously  though aren’t you scared of this present generation… ?๐Ÿ˜ฆ

๐Ÿ˜ซ Nakedness as a fashion trend is not far fetched…. Just around the corner.. Probably 2018๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž

Girls have become sooo desperate  for attention and the sad part is any kind attention is permissible.. Tell me, how do you filter the attention that comes to you through this means! ,exposing your body in such a crazy way… ๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’

We observe the foreign culture and totally forget our own cultures doesnt  condone or even understand the idea of nudity as fashion..

Common girlzzzz…

Being decent isn’t boring!๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‰ trust me:

Attract the right attention  Ladies๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜

Now notice the trends of this pictures… No one is saying  showing a little flesh is bad… But show them in the right places, a lil arm, leg skin etc… โ˜บ๐Ÿ˜‰

“Less is more” is the heart of classy fashion…the reasons for this pictures is just to show you deceny is boring, or unsexy… It puts you in the right light (attention)

If not for you,  do it for your  unborn children

#Teamdeceny guys… Let’s  choose to be decents for our unborn daughters… Remember decency  is SEXY…..decency is BAE.

HouseofJoy say so! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜ and thank you for reading.. Please drop your comments and likes! ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

God bless.

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IPHONE7!! I HAIL YOU! ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช

Iphones๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’,  seriously though!, apart from the class/reputation the phone brings… I really cant place my hands on the reason  why some girllssss will do just about anything to get their hands on one.. And i mean anything ohhh… 

The funny thing is,  you can’t  even tell me its the technology, because half of you guys aren’t even utilizing the phone’s complete capacity !๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’.. I am serious ohh!! Cos some of you.. Its just the camera quality  you are after… Nothing you sabi! ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰

Was strolling through instagram some days back and i read this story about a girl who is about to destroy her relationship because bae doesnt have enough owo(cash) to buy her an iphone7, and she is using iphone 6!which  the same bae bought ohhh๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜”..common now!, warrisit? 

  Ok okay you want a phone that the ear piece cost 76k… You that can spoil spoil earpiece anyhow!! ๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜• i just dnt gerrit! 

I won’t  lie! ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ, i catch myself fancying the phone once in a while and then i remember all the disadvantages attached to having one… And is it in this present change( somebody sai baba!!๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€), that one will be buying such a pricey phone..

I know guys too are doing crazy stuffs just to lay hold of this new gadgets,  but babes i hail you ohh… Yours is unbeatable! ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿ™‡

Here’s a little advice: who Iphone7 epp? 

BE CONTENT!! ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

 No one will still your Joy… Thanks for reading guys… Have any friend who is about to do something crazy for iphones… Pls gist me Ohhh! ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜‰

P to the D to the A (PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’)

Sitting in the parlor, thinking of what to write about, and gbam!  My senior bro asks me “chichi do you know PDA? ” olodo like me na…  am like huh!! ๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•, he then said public display of affection and i was like ohhhhhhhh!!!  ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€ yeaaaaaa thats definitely  me! ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰

(Respek to 2baba๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜)  ehennnn…. 

As the name implies, PDA are acts of intimacies  in the view of others, any touch that is meant to induce/arouse feelings of love in the giver and the receiver!  Eg kissing, hugging, hands holding, butt squeezing(extreme i dont care tinz) eyes gazing and so on. 

Okay so the thing is, are you a PDA practitioner or you belong to the group that says ” oh please get a room!) ๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’ bad belle dem!! ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜œ

As for me, myself and i, we are a PDA practitionerzz! ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜! Sha don’t  touch my butt outside,,, i beg you! ๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜ฑ

 Ehen another thing, this can only occur ,i repeat can only occur with hubby and me... Soo dear future boyfriend no deceive yaself ohh! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ i fit reflex action slap you by mistake!! 

Once am married,  hmm.. In front of plaza, inside plaza, on the street, in the cinema ,at the restaurant….all join! ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€ haters will hate now and say sister Joyy!๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜‡  Abeg abeg… Flyyyyy! ๐Ÿ˜“๐Ÿ˜คโœ‹ shey you cannot look another side, or better still shut the eyes and meditate!! ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜.heheheh

So do let me know guy:

Do you care about seeing PDA? Are you a fan of it yourself, or do you prefer to keep that kind of thing behind closed doors?
Drop your comments down below guys! ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜ and thank youuu! 

Joy from within, no man born of a woman  can steal it… Tahhh!  Dem no fit! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

CAREERS VS JOB! ๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•is there a difference?ย 

My people i hail you ohh,, sup? ย How your day dey waka naa? Happy Sunday to you dearies! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

So i just dey waka for internet๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿšถ, na im i see say career no be job! ๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜ฑ,i bin feel say na the same thing oh! ย But as i con enter deep for the search engine… I shock! ๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž career and job dey different ohh..you sef no know(olodos๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜œ)..Upon say i be bsc holder.. Nawa!! ๐Ÿ˜ซ๐Ÿ˜ซBut make i for ย explain give una, i gaz enter gear proper english๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰.

Yes guys, there is a thin line between a job and a career, a very thin one but trust me it makes all the difference! ย So lets dive ย right into it guys! Starting with a basic definition:

A career is the pursuit of a lifelong ambition or the general course of progression towards lifelong goals
WHILE

Job is an activity through which an individual can earn money. It is a regular activity in exchange of payment.ย 

Now from the above definitions, you can clearly see that the thin line between careers and jobs, is the powerful word “PASSION” oh yea! ย You heard me right, Passion!!ย 

Passion ย is sooo powerful๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช , it gets you up in the morning, its that untouchable drive that pushes you to go the extra mile even without being told, it is the force that keeps you going even when there is no ๐Ÿž on the table.

I am not saying a job is bad ย ohhh, it can aid your career start up… But right now guys, i am jobbing ๐Ÿ˜ฅ and the truth is,, its a struggle, each morning i wana cry! ย I just feel weak, ย i dont look forward to it at alllllll! ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ,and when im at work, ย its all about counting down to closing hours ๐Ÿ•”, that’s so wrong, ย even though the pay is aii! ๐Ÿ‘Œ, i see me resigning soonest (thats a secret guys! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ). I really don’t want you guys to go through the same tguys so ,ย So here’s my lil advice guys,

  1. ย Do what you love and love what you do.ย 
  2. Do not be pressured by your parents to do what they want, ย humbly and politely convince them otherwise ย and diligently ย pursue it,ย 
  3. Its not gonna be easy guys, but we know nothing awesome ย comes easy!ย 
  4. So hussle hard, pray harder, and flex hardest. ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ’†๐Ÿ’‡๐Ÿ’…๐ŸŸ๐Ÿป๐Ÿป

Love you guys… Joy from within cannot be stolen! ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’

Thanks you ย for your support and love, means a lot , please do leave a comment and a like !๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜


SO YOUR SINGLE? ๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜ฑ

There are worse things than being alone. But it often takes decades to realize this. And most often when you do, itโ€™s too late. And thereโ€™s nothing worse than too late.ย 

โ€“ Charles Bukowski

Its funny how so many people view relationships as the best part of life! ย Including me oh! I literally ย have not been single like for ย ever! ๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜”.

Nonetheless, being single allowsย you to experience so much that is often simply not possible when subjected to the pressures of supporting and maintaining a relationship.

The state of being single is not a curse or something to feel down about. ย It is a stage /period for the following events to take place :

1. IT IS ABOUT DISCOVERING WHO YOU REALLY ARE! ๐Ÿ˜:

Being single gives you a unique opportunity to get to really find outย who you are. The good, the bad, the hidden things are all laid bare. Your strengths, weaknesses and insecurities exposed. Nahhh! we all have those, common! ๐Ÿ˜‰don’t feel bad!ย 

2. IT IS ABOUT FINDING ย OUT WHAT TOUCHES YOU (YOUR PASSION) :

Thereโ€™s something deeply tragic about not ย having a goal of your own, something that makes you jump out of bed every morning, its really not fun playing tag along all the days of your life. ๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜Œ๐Ÿ˜”

Now don’t get me wrong, ย its a thing of joy living for others and putting other’s need before yours. And sometimes it is absolutely ย necessary and the ย right thing to do. ย But what is your excuse na??! So stop it, stop ย delaying and find out what you love to do and do it to the best of your abilities,๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘trust me ,this in turn will give you the strength and love to help those ย you love.ย 

3.LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELFFFFF! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜

You simply cannot give the pure unadulterated love ย youโ€™re capable of, if youโ€™re held down ย by low self esteem and doubts. Discover who you really ย are, and understand you are wonderfully and beautifully created.. Whether ย you have no front hair on your head, or a bow leg, or your melanin aint popping! ๐Ÿ˜จ who cares jooh!ย YOU ARE BAE, ย so learn to love you.. And in loving yourself , you get the strength to work on your character flaws and let go of all unnecessary baggages.ย 

And last but not the least!ย 

4. GAIN CONFIDENCE :

Discovering your self, your passion, and learning to love yourself ย builds your self confidence.ย 

Now guys, ย don’t get ย it twisted, confidence is NOT pride, ย never was, never will be, whereas confidence will attract the opposite sex, ๐Ÿ˜‰ pride will get them ย running ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ.ย  So Guys build ย your confidence, its sexyyy! ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

With this few points of mine,๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€(debating thinz) i hope i have been able to convince and not confuse you that being SINGLE is not a curse but a BLESSING(GOD-DESIGNED).

Its goodnyt from HOUSEOFJOY! and remember no one has the power to steal your joy! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜



PORNOGRAPHY๐Ÿ˜ฏ: GOOD OR BAD!?



Truth be told, ย it took a lot of guts for me to decide writing on this topic. I am not writing to judge or condemn no one, ย but i did a little research on this topic and WOW! ย was i overwhelmed.People really are of the opinion that porn is good! ๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜ฑWell what do i know? ๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜’

Some are of the opinion that porn is good ย ๐Ÿ‘Œand some are strongly ย against it๐Ÿ‘Ž, but that does not reduce the number of people,(elderly or really young, spiritual or carnal, dignitary or not!) that are held bound by this addiction…. and oh boy! ๐Ÿ˜ฐ๐Ÿ˜ฐ it is sooooo accessible . The internet is flooded with it; ranging from pictures to videos to audios and so on, ๐Ÿ˜“

๐Ÿ˜“ Am sure you wondering how i know ย so much.. Oh well i was once a victim! Have you heard of the “POWER OF ONE CLICK” that click takes you deeper! ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ฅ. Yes i was and i assure ย you the power it has is worse than nicotine addiction. Thanks to a Higher power, that is my past now…story for another day! I’ll gist you some day๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰.

Back to the matter of the heart.. Which ย side do you belong to? ย Good or bad ย and if bad how can one stop it? If good what are your reasons? Remember ย your story might just be someone’s ย help or ginger!

Goodnight fam! ๐Ÿ˜ Remember ย Joy from within can never be stolen! ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜



YOUR LIFE GOALS?

Its a boring afternoon and am watching  movie zone!, yes i know I’m supposed to be at work… Mini holiday! ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜

Yes back to the main ish, so am watching t.v and my friend (can’t say his name… I dont trust some girls๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜œ) whatsapps me with a really mind bugglying question, :”what is your life’s goal? ” ๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜จ i literally  frooze,  i thought i knew, was sure i knew ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ,but i could not answer, didnt know what to say, like i really had to think and  all i could say was “make people happy, like really joyous”,  be it joking around or cooking or praying for you, but majorly taking the ugly and making it beautiful .Now this was all scattered in my head and i realised i really needed to define my goals more clearly. So heres my thought:

A little tip on creating your  goals: divide it into  family goals, relationship/marriage goals, career goals, financial goals etc.and really  project into the future,  what do you see? How can you achieve it? Is it too big?  Break it down to smaller bits! 

How about you loves! 

What is your life goal? Apart from being happily married with cute kids and living comfortably, what else? 

Talk to me, you just could help others shapen theirs! 

Always and forever Joy is from the inside! 

CHAPMAN๐Ÿน๐Ÿท

Hey! Hello! Sup! Hi! ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

Yes i am flooding your timeline and today ย we discussing my favourite drink!, ย guess what it is? ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ

Yes you got it right! CHAPMAN is bae! ๐Ÿ˜ hehehehehe but common I’m sure you love chapman as well right!? ๐Ÿ˜‰ Okay so lets get this straight i have a cheat-way on how to do sharp sharp chapman with just 200naira๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

Ingredients :

One bottle of fanta

A bottle of sprite

Any edible red colouring! ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ‘

And of course for ajebo reasons ,orange

Get a big glass cup mix all as desired and ENJOY ๐Ÿน๐Ÿป easy right! ย And those ย people will be charging #1,500 for one glass ๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜Œ

BUT wait oh !๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜“ this is the cheat way of making it. If you make ย it different and know a better way ,please share!.

And like we always say Joy comes from within! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

MARRIAGE OR WEDDING, WHICH ARE YOU PREPARING FOR? ๐Ÿ˜’

Hello awesome viewers!! ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜ how are you and how have you been? ย Please do let me know because i truly care.

Okay okay so i know your wondering what is Joy ranting on about ! But really have you noticed the increasing rate of marriages falling apart? ย Have you also noticed the mighty efforts and creativity put into the wedding preps (pre photo shoots, shopping aso ebi and all) !?๐Ÿ˜ You’ll ย buy aso ebi 10 thousand naira and then marriage crumbles 1year later? ๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’

Am sure you get the picture!

Okay so what am i really ย talking about? ย Joy get to the point!

For one to prevent something, you have to be knowledgeable about it. For wgen the purpose of a thing is not known ย abuse is indeed inevitable ,so therefore ย here are the differences between wedding and marriage, just incase you don’t know:

Wedding lasts for a day,swhile ย marriage last for a lifetime,so be careful the finance invested. ย Wedding involves ย guests, friends and family while marriage is you, your spouse and offsprings and also in wedding the opinions of almost everyone is needed for it to be successful but for marriage third parties ย are highly discouraged.

Prepare for your marriage guys, ย communicate with your person, love is not blind ohhhhh๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜คbe sure you are compatible, that your values and goals are similar, that God is in the center of your lives. Be observant to thraits that scream disaster, and please if ย you have an advice..abeg talk it Or what do you think guys, comment your mind!

I love you guys so much and remember joy is from within ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’

TRUE LOVE WITHOUT SEX? ๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜ฑ

This century has equaled sex to love. ย You’ll hear things like ” if you love mi baby ย prove your love, lets have sex! “.๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข

But seriously though, can’t a relationship exist without sex and be strong and healthy?

I really ย want to hear your opinions guy.. Let me ย know, do you know any relationship that ย is without sex? ย And what is the secret.

Remember Joy is from the inside. ๐Ÿ˜˜