There are worse things than being alone. But it often takes decades to realize this. And most often when you do, it’s too late. And there’s nothing worse than too late.
– Charles Bukowski
Its funny how so many people view relationships as the best part of life! Including me oh! I literally have not been single like for ever! 😔😔.
Nonetheless, being single allows you to experience so much that is often simply not possible when subjected to the pressures of supporting and maintaining a relationship.
The state of being single is not a curse or something to feel down about. It is a stage /period for the following events to take place :
1. IT IS ABOUT DISCOVERING WHO YOU REALLY ARE! 😍:
Being single gives you a unique opportunity to get to really find out who you are. The good, the bad, the hidden things are all laid bare. Your strengths, weaknesses and insecurities exposed. Nahhh! we all have those, common! 😉don’t feel bad!
2. IT IS ABOUT FINDING OUT WHAT TOUCHES YOU (YOUR PASSION) :
There’s something deeply tragic about not having a goal of your own, something that makes you jump out of bed every morning, its really not fun playing tag along all the days of your life. 😞😒😌😔
Now don’t get me wrong, its a thing of joy living for others and putting other’s need before yours. And sometimes it is absolutely necessary and the right thing to do. But what is your excuse na??! So stop it, stop delaying and find out what you love to do and do it to the best of your abilities,👏👏trust me ,this in turn will give you the strength and love to help those you love.
3.LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELFFFFF! 😍😘
You simply cannot give the pure unadulterated love you’re capable of, if you’re held down by low self esteem and doubts. Discover who you really are, and understand you are wonderfully and beautifully created.. Whether you have no front hair on your head, or a bow leg, or your melanin aint popping! 😨 who cares jooh! YOU ARE BAE, so learn to love you.. And in loving yourself , you get the strength to work on your character flaws and let go of all unnecessary baggages.
And last but not the least!
4. GAIN CONFIDENCE :
Discovering your self, your passion, and learning to love yourself builds your self confidence.
Now guys, don’t get it twisted, confidence is NOT pride, never was, never will be, whereas confidence will attract the opposite sex, 😉 pride will get them running 👉👉🏃🏃🏃. So Guys build your confidence, its sexyyy! 😘😘
With this few points of mine,😀😀(debating thinz) i hope i have been able to convince and not confuse you that being SINGLE is not a curse but a BLESSING(GOD-DESIGNED).
Its goodnyt from HOUSEOFJOY! and remember no one has the power to steal your joy! 😍😘